Thoughtful Gift Ideas for Someone in Long-Term Care

Provide comfort. Let’s start with the basics that make daily life more pleasant. A soft, cozy throw blanket in their favorite color can make their space feel more like home. Look for one that’s easy to wash and maintain. Similarly, a comfortable bed pillow or cushion for someone who uses a wheelchair can make a real difference in their comfort level throughout the day.

Help them connect. One of the most precious gifts you can give is helping your loved one stay connected to family and friends. A digital photo frame that you can update remotely means they’ll see fresh photos of grandchildren, pets, and family gatherings without needing to do anything technical. If they’re tech-savvy, a tablet preloaded with video calling apps (and maybe a quick tutorial card) can be wonderful for face-to-face chats. Another idea would be a pack of postcards already addressed to you or other family members.

Engage the senses. A lavender-scented lotion can be soothing before bedtime, while their favorite cologne or perfume can help them feel more like themselves. Small potted plants or a vase with fresh flowers (when you visit) can brighten their space and give them something to care for and enjoy.

Entertainment them. Large-print books, audiobook subscriptions, or magazine subscriptions related to their interests can provide hours of entertainment. Puzzle books, simple craft kits, or even a bird feeder outside their window can offer engaging activities. Music is incredibly powerful too—consider a simple music player preloaded with their favorite songs from their younger years.

Give the gift of your time. Here’s something to remember: Sometimes the best gift isn’t something you buy at all. Your presence, whether through a regular visiting schedule or simply taking them outside for fresh air when possible, can mean more than any physical item. Bringing their favorite treat from a local bakery or restaurant can also create a special moment you share together.

Before buying anything large, check with the facility about space and policies. Label personal items with their name to prevent mix-ups. And most importantly, think about what brings your loved one joy specifically—not just what seems like a “nice” gift.

The most meaningful gifts show that you’re thinking about their daily experience and what would genuinely improve their quality of life. It’s the thought, care, and continued connection that matters most.